Ways to Stay Connected When Your Child Is Away

little girl on the phoneCo-parenting a child is one of the most difficult aspects of single parenting. It is hard sending your kids away to spend time with their other parent. Although you know it is good for them, you miss them like crazy and they miss you too. However, there are many ways that you can connect with your child when they are away from you.

A Picture Says a Thousand Words….

Let your child take a picture or video of you or both of you together with them. If they are little, you can put it in a stuffed animal with a photo frame. You can find stuffed animals with soft frames that can even go in bed with your child. If they are older you can make or buy a special frame.

Reach Out and Touch Them….

Talk with your ex ahead of time about an appropriate time for a daily phone call. This way you can hear all about your child's day and they can hear your voice. Don't dwell too much on the fact that you are apart, often this can create or exacerbate homesickness. Just try and have a fun and casual conversation so you can stay connected.

Give Them a Piece of You…..

Let your child take something from home on their visit. They can take their pillow or a special blanket. Often the smell of home is comforting to them when they start to feel homesick. Some kids even like taking something of yours with them like a t-shirt. They can wear it as a nightgown or just cuddle with it at bedtime.

Put it in Words….

Older children that can read really like exchanging letters when they are away from home. You can send them things they like with the letters, almost like a care package. If your child doesn't go away long enough for letter writing, you can still write them a note. Give them one telling them how much they mean to you and let them keep it in their suitcase or overnight bag. Then, they can read the note if they ever get sad or miss you.

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  1. Marilyn says:

    I hope this doesn’t happen to me :/ I don’t want my baby to go through that.

  2. Janice says:

    There are many children in this world today who have divided fronts to deal with. They could use the approach of having something to take with them or keep with them to balance their time no matter which front they are on.

  3. This is a extremely helpful article for me. My son currently lives with his father and I’m living in a hotel and it gets hard without him here with me. I only see him two or three times a week and it’s hard to adjust to that after him being with me 24/7 365. I have full custody of my son, but I feel it’s better for him to be at this fathers where it is more stable than staying at the hotel with me. I love the fact that you guys have a special section about separation and how to stay connected.

  4. Pictures are definatly helpful

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