6 Ways Your Older Kids Can Help with the New Baby
When I was pregnant with my youngest child, I was worried about how the newest member of the family was going to change the dynamic with my older children. I was not new to having a new baby in the family, but this was the first time there was such a big age gap.
When my youngest was born, those worries went away quickly because I had prepared a lot beforehand and knew that in order to help my kids bond with the baby, I needed to accept their help in the everyday things. I have always been careful to ask for their help and not insist because I don't want them to see any new responsibilities placed on them as a result of the baby. So when I need help, I ask. And most times, they're really awesome about helping out.
If you have older children and a new baby, there are many ways you can encourage your older kids to help out and bond with the new baby.
Gather diapers and wipes
While your older child will likely not volunteer to change your new baby's diaper, they'll probably be happy to gather a diaper and some wipes for you. It's a way to help them become involved in those everyday things that happen a few times each day.
Make funny faces when baby is crying or fussy
No one likes to hear a baby crying or fussing, and your older child may still be too young to hold and rock the baby, but there are other ways they can help comfort: making funny faces. It's a way to distract the new baby for a little bit and hopefully get their spirits up. It's also fun for your older child.
Wipe the baby when he spits up
If your new baby is anything like my youngest, spit up will happen a lot. If your older child isn't too grossed out by a little spit up, you can help them get involved by being in charge of gently wiping the baby's chin after each feed or random spit up.
Choose the clothes for the baby
My youngest daughter loves to choose the clothes for “her baby” each morning, and my older daughter loves to pick out the baby's pajamas at the end of the day. It's a fun way for them to help out and play dress up, and it encourages interaction between the kids.
Sing the baby a song or rub their feet
My kids love to sing, and when baby is sleepy, fussy, or just needs some entertaining, they sing to him. It's a great way to get some help with him while I cook dinner or to just give me a break from constantly entertaining him.
My little one also loves to have his feet rubbed, and my older kids, who are obsessed with his tiny toes, love to help comfort him by rubbing his feet.
Help wash the baby in the bath
There are many ways your older child can help out during bath time, but you should never leave the two alone. Watching your baby in the water is too big of a responsibility for any child; however, there are fun ways your older child can help out while you're there. They can be in charge of washing baby's toes, handing you the towel, or helping to dry baby off when he's out of the tub.
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