6 Steps You Can Take During Pregnancy to Help Meet Your Breastfeeding Goals

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Breastfeeding has been one of my favorite moments in parenting for many reasons. It has always been a desire of mine to feel the close bond that others talk about throughout breastfeeding and when I made it a big goal of mine to breastfeed my 3rd child until she self-weaned – something I was unable to do with my first two children – I was nervous. I didn't want to “fail” again (fail at reaching my own personal goals) and so I worked to set myself up for the best I could to meet my own goals before the baby was born — while I was still pregnant.

We spend a lot of time preparing to make sure we have all the stuff we need for our babies when they are born. We have a crib and the bedding ready. We have their clothes bought, washed, and hung neatly. We have a swing and a stroller, and pacifiers, but rarely do we think about breastfeeding. If you're planning to breastfeed you may believe there are no preparations to be made, but if you have your own personal breastfeeding goals, setting yourself up to meet them while you're still pregnant can make a huge difference.

Click through to read 6 steps you can take while you're pregnant to help aid your personal breastfeeding goals.

Go to a breastfeeding support group

Those local support groups are not only beneficial when you're already breastfeeding and maybe struggling, they're a great place to go when you're wanting to learn more about breastfeeding, before you actually begin. There you'll get advice from women who are experienced, a chance to ask questions, and an opportunity to develop a great support group to go to if you do have any issues.

Read a great book

We spend a lot of time reading books like What to Expect When You're Expecting while pregnant and while the typical pregnancy books cover breastfeeding as a topic, grabbing a book just on breastfeeding is great to read while you're pregnant. My two recommendations: Guide to Breastfeeding by Dr. Jack Newman, Amazon $25.18 and Womanly Art of Breastfeeding by Diane Wiessinger, Diana West, and Teresa Pitman, Amazon $11.30

Know your hospital

There are some hospitals that are more “breastfeeding friendly” than others, and getting to know the hospital where you will be giving birth can help you meet your goals. You'll want to make sure the hospital policy is to not give formula without written consent and that they have lactation consultants on staff to help if needed.


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Talk to your partner

Getting your partner on board with your hopes and goals for breastfeeding can go a real long way in how breastfeeding goes. During the first few weeks of breastfeeding, when it's at its hardest — your partner may try to “fix” the trouble you're having and this could undermine your confidence. Not on purpose, of course. You need to have your partner well-versed in the “normal” breastfeeding struggles and ready to be a positive cheerleader when you need one. A research study published in the May 2013 issue of International Breastfeeding Journal found, “Mothers feel more capable and confident about breastfeeding when they perceive their partners are supportive by way of verbal encouragement and active involvement in breastfeeding activities. Mothers with partners who seemed ambivalent, motivated only by ‘what's best for baby,' or provided negative feedback about breastfeeding, felt less confident in their ability to breastfeed.”

Get to know the “boobie traps”

Breastfeeding, while natural, is not always easy and there are a lot of societal issues that can hold a woman back from meeting her personal breastfeeding goals whatever they are. Best for Babes, an organization that works to support women during breastfeeding, lays out the many “boobie traps” that can work against a woman's desire to breastfeed which you can read about on their website.

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Don't prepare for the worst

One big difference I made when my third child was born, was to not prepare for the “what if I can't breastfeed” fears. What that means is I didn't have any formula on hand. No bottles. No pump. And I promised to keep it that way for at least 6 weeks — the time period I found breastfeeding to be the most challenging. I found that in the moments at 2:00 am where I was tired, so tired, and wondering if my baby was screaming because he was hungry, that not having formula and bottles to turn to in those desperate moments made a huge difference. By 6 weeks, my milk was established and I was more used to living on little sleep and everything seemed much more manageable.

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6 Steps You Can Take During Pregnancy to Help Meet Your Breastfeeding Goals

Devan McGuinness is the founder of the online resource Unspoken Grief, which is dedicated to breaking the silence of perinatal grief for those directly and indirectly affected by miscarriage, stillbirth and neonatal death. Using her own experience of surviving 12 miscarriages, Devan has been actively supporting and encouraging others who are wading through the challenges associated with perinatal and neonatal loss. Winner of the 2012 Bloganthropy Award and named one of Babble's “25 bloggers wh ... More

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  1. SarahMike says:

    I get paid over $90 per hour working from home with 2 kids at home. I never thought I’d be able to do it but my best friend earns over 10k a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The potential with this is endless. Heres what I’ve been doing,


  2. Jessica says:

    I’ve nursed two successfully and on my way to a third. I will definitely say that not having enough money to consider formula feeding kept me pressing through the difficult times with my first. With my second I knew that I could do it so nothing extra was needed. Each was given a bottle or two of formula but the second couldn’t stomach it so I couldn’t even use up the samples. My prayers for all who try, because like everything else in this world it takes work to be good at it and sometimes it just doesn’t work.

  3. jessi says:

    I’m excited to breastfeed and reading all the articles I can I am just a bit nervous I won’t be able to do it right or he will have trouble latching on. But I will give it my all and hope for the best.

    • Amy says:

      I am terrified because I have such sensitive and sore nipples while pregnant I don’t know how to help that situation. My husband can barely touch them without me just freaking out. How will I ever nurse a baby???!!!


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