Making a Birth Plan: Is That Why They Call It Labor?

As your pregnancy progresses, you will be thinking about the actual birthing process. You may be dreaming of a simple and natural delivery, and you may also be afraid that something will go wrong. Everyone has thoughts about what a perfect delivery would be. And every mother-to-be has fears about the end of the pregnancy, about labor, and about the health of the baby.

You should make a birth plan, but remember that sometimes a plan cannot be followed.

You could say that the ideal for most prospective moms is a normal vaginal delivery, probably in a birthing center with a bedroom-like, comfortable, delivery room. Most would also like the practitioner that has been following them through their pregnancy be the one to deliver the baby.

Hopefully you have found an obstetrician that you like, and you have discussed whether she or a colleague might be the one to deliver your baby. Perhaps a midwife is going to help with the delivery, either at a birthing center or hospital. A home birth is also possible, but you may have to look a little harder for a healthcare provider who will help you.

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If you want a completely natural childbirth with no medication, you may have picked a midwife or you may communicate this to your doctor. Ther are many ways to manage your labor pain, including breathing techniques, such as Lamaze and Bradley. There is also yoga, hypnosis, and calming music. Your partner can help you as well with massage and counter-pressure. You can walk, lie down, or find any position that increases your comfort. You can even have many family members with you. In birthing centers, you can often take a relaxing shower or even a bath. Water births are available in some birthing centers. Giving birth in a tub is supposed to be relaxing and natural for both the baby and the mother. If you want a water birth, you need to make sure your midwife or obstetrician is comfortable with your choice.


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All of these choices can be fine if you have a low-risk pregnancy, if you yourself are healthy, and the labor proceeds without any problems.

What do you think?

Making a Birth Plan: Is That Why They Call It Labor?

Tell us what you think!


  1. tierra says:

    Im thinking about a birth plan this time around

  2. Eva says:

    My baby will be here in about 2 weeks and my only plan is to make it to the hospital before she falls out of me!! haha

    • calicia says:

      I feel the same way, it is 42 miles to the hospital where my child will be born. This is my first child n I am scared that my baby might make it in the world before i make it to the hospital.

  3. Jessica says:

    This is my 3rd child, and i never had a set birthing plan. I have gone with the flow in the past. I went all natural with my first 2 and it was a breeze, But i love the idea to have a plan so my doctors and my husband should know what i want.

  4. Flo says:

    I’m so scared of the pain during labor, but I don’t want to miss any of it and I don’t want to do a c-section just so not to feel it. I am glad my husband will be there with me.

  5. Diana says:

    Cant wait to have my baby i hope everything goes quick

  6. Tina says:

    I know labor isn’t going to be a breeze, but I hope things go smoothly.

  7. Phammom says:

    Hoping for all natural. Expecting the worse hoping for the best.

  8. Theresa says:

    I had come up with a birth pan, but it never made it to the doctor’s hand because my labor progressed very quickly. It was all natural though. I wanted it to be a natural birth all during my pregnancy. People told me i was crazy! But I did it before with my son, I can do it again! As active labor progressed, i said, "Screw it, give me the epidural!" But it was too late, the baby was coming, so I had no choice but go natural. I am happy now that i did.

  9. monette3 says:

    There is so much to decide!

  10. MamaDeeDee says:

    I had no plan with my first. I was induced, got an epidural, got IV meds, etc. The epidural was the worst experience of my life. It took three tries (the second one paralyzed me for a few hours), then it only numbed my left leg. The entire birthing experience was very traumatizing. I’m going all natural this time to avoid the cascade of interventions that has haunted me for the past 8 years.

  11. kristi12 says:

    This article helped me out some. I’ve been trying to figure out what to do for a birth plan.

  12. MamaCat says:

    Jen – I would say you and your husband are taking the best approach you can. You are prepared and you know that things don’t always go according to the "plan" we have in our heads. I think looking at your options is a great idea but I like that you aren’t tied to any one way of going about it. I think that will help you when the time comes so you don’t freak out if it doesn’t go EXACTLY as you might like.

  13. Berenice says:

    This is a helping article.

  14. Jen says:

    My midwife has encouraged my husband and I to look into all the available birthing methods out there and to create a birth plan to prepare for the delivery, come July.

    Is it weird that neither my husband nor I are leaning toward any particular method?

    We are hoping for just a ‘normal’ natural birthing experience and don’t want to put too much thought into what method to use, as when it comes down to the actual labor it’s going to be intense and probably nothing like what we’re expecting at all (we’re first-time parents-to-be).

    We just don’t want to spend too much time worrying about what method to use when, as the article simply states: "…sometimes a plan cannot be followed."

  15. Janice says:

    Birth plans, is new to me, we did not make a plan we just got ready, and went to the hospital. Where the doctors and other care givers in that area of the hospital took care of your needs until you went home.

  16. verochka31 says:

    scheduled 5th c-section…………….

  17. Janice says:

    Back your bag, have phone numbers for emergency and alerting family. Off you go.

  18. So glad you were able to find a birth plan that worked for you! We are currently creating our own birth plan tool as well that will walk you through it step by step 🙂

  19. I printed out a birth plan from It was very easy to fill in and made the task less daunting.

  20. Brandi says:

    I wrote out my whole birth plan and then asked my partner the same questions that I thought about while doing the birth plan…. I had to explain a lot of things for him, but he politely asked for several things that I was adamant about NOT doing or having done. It took us a while, but we finally got it hammered out. He got his way. It won’t hurt me any to have the baby in the room with me and waiting a few minutes to have the baby weighted and measured so he can scramble to tell everyone before she its is fine I guess. It is only a few minutes so Its not a big problem at all. I just had to lighten up. He gave me my way with everything else so I can give him those 2 things.

  21. TriciaK7575 says:

    I’ve had 2 children, and am pregnant with my third. My first was all natural, no pain meds/epidural. My daughter was induced, so had Nubane, but also no epidural. My reasoning is simple…the recovery time is so much faster without an epidural. I’ve also seen two people (personally) recover from epidural, one was still experiencing numbness in her hands a year later, and my roommate in the hospital with my daughter still couldn’t get out of bed more than 12 hours after I got into the room. My brother met someone in physical therapy that had to learn to walk all over again after a complication from an epidural. I’ll deal with the pain thanks.

  22. mellypie18 says:

    I’m blessed to have a very healthy pregnancy and have been going to a midwife. I decided to not take an epidural and have a completely natural birth. I’m just praying for a healthy birth with no medical interventions.

  23. peaches0408 says:

    This is a very simple explanation..and very helpful. Oddly enough, I find the term "birth plan" a bit silly because these plans always change.. But it’s a good idea to share your hopes and expectations with your partner & doctor.

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