Feel Like You’re Losing Your Mind? Check Out These Mental Health Tips for New Parents

We all know that caring for a newborn can be a source of both joy and stress for a new parent. The demands of an infant are often underestimated. Many new parents find it challenging to divide attention between a baby and both the physical and emotional demands of daily life. It can really take a toll on your mental health.

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According to Theresa Carroll, OTD, OTR/L, Clinical Assistant Professor of Occupational Therapy at the University of Illinois in Chicago and also a volunteer Babywearing Educator with Babywearing International “When an individual becomes a parent or caregiver, their occupations drastically change and it can be overwhelming. Many find themselves having to sacrifice self-care, leisure activities, work, and even education to prioritize the new occupations involved in caring for a newborn.”

Occupational therapy practitioners are experts in activity such as self-care, work, and play, and can help new parents and caregivers compensate and find balance by promoting healthy routines to preserve mental wellness. The American Occupational Therapy Association (AOTA) offers evidence-based tips for new caregivers to promote mental and physical health and well-being:

  • Increase skin-to-skin contact. Physical contact between caregiver and child promotes physical and mental development for the baby and elicits good feelings for the caregiver.  
  • Wear your baby when safe. Wearing a baby in a carrier or wrap promotes physical development including head control and understanding of the world around them. It also gives caregivers the opportunity to participate in occupations such as household chores or tending to older children and leisure such as walks.
  • Connect with others. Join a parent group, playgroup, moms’ club, dads’ club, parenting support group, stroller exercise group, etc. for support. Many local libraries hold free weekly events for young children, which offer structured play for both parent and child, and informal networking for caregivers.
  • Set realistic expectations. Caregiving is not all giggles, hugs, and “I love yous” all the time. Some days, the dog is barking, the baby is crying, the toddler is having a meltdown, the sink is full of dishes, and the laundry seems never-ending. Sometimes, juggling work demands or little sleep and continuing to breastfeed can seem impossible. Understanding that most parents feel this way and are going through these changes can help.
  • Accept help. Understand that accepting help with daily activities is not admitting defeat. Assistance from others can offer time to participate in self-care and health-promoting leisure routines. “Taking care of yourself as a caregiver translates to the mental wellness of the child,” says Carroll. “Allowing others to care for your child so you can take a shower, go for a run, or read a book can be beneficial to both caregiver and child.”

“Occupational therapists understand the benefits of engaging in meaningful occupations for mental health,” says Carroll. “Helping caregivers establish routines that facilitate the balance of caregiving, self-care, and leisure can promote mental wellness for both the caregiver and the child.” Accordingly, no parent should ever feel guilty about taking some time just for themselves or taking a break from the daily grind and something fun as a family.  

To learn more, listen to the AOTA podcast for parents. You can also learn more about how occupational therapy practitioners work with children and their families here

Take care of you and your mental health so that you can take care of everyone else!

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Feel Like You’re Losing Your Mind? Check Out These Mental Health Tips for New Parents

Jamie is a Beltway Insider who loves channeling her pre-motherhood love of traveling into spending time exploring all D.C. has to offer with her brood of two girls and two boys ages 9, 7,5, and a baby. She is a reformed lawyer turned full-time kid wrangler who enjoys photographing her everyday chaos and anything salted caramel. Since life is never dull, she loves writing about the issues and events going on in her life at any given time, including caring for a daughter with special needs and th ... More

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