5 Ways You Can Involve Your Preschooler in Community Service

community service ideas for preschoolers

The older my son gets, the more I become aware of the values I am instilling in him. With the holidays quickly approaching, I have been looking for ways to teach him about helping others. Much like any typical 4-year-old, my son is now in the “I want” stage.  I can't watch a TV show without him exclaiming, “I want that toy for Christmas, mommy,” even if he already has that toy! I sometimes wonder if I'm doing this whole parenting thing wrong when I hear him talk about the toys he just has to have. Then I talk to other moms and realize that this “I want” behavior is very typical.  

As your child becomes more independent and interested in building relationships, you can start introducing him or her to community service projects.

Instead of telling my son over and over again that he doesn't need that rocket ship because he has three in the playroom, I have to decided to teach him about giving back. I'm hopeful that a hands-on experience will better show him that he can be just as happy giving to others as he can in getting a new toy.    

I asked other parents what community service projects they participated in with their preschoolers. Here are just a few of the inspiring ways parents are helping their children learn about giving back.

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Image via Mindi Stavish

1. Donating to a Food Bank

While I was spring cleaning this year, I asked Xander to help me pick out his favorite foods that we could donate to other boys and girls who may not have as much food as we do. He gladly went through the pantry with me, choosing foods he thought other kids would enjoy. After we gathered the food, I did some research to locate the nearest food bank. Then he helped me bag the food, put it in the car, and take it to the food bank with me. Now once a month, we make an afternoon out of the project.

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Image via Cheerful Givers

2.  Operation Christmas Child

Operation Christmas Child is an international relief that delivers shoe box-sized care packages to children in need during the holiday season. Jennifer Harris, a mother of three, participates in this program with her children each year. Last year, her children loved it and “were excited about buying things they knew other kids needed (socks, hats, mittens) and things they wanted (toys, candy etc.).”

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Image via Shaun McGahey

3.  Volunteering at the Special Olympics

Shaun, who blogs at Living with Peanut, brings her daughter with her when she volunteers at the Special Olympics practices and tournaments.

Image via Jennifer Murphy-Wescott
Image via Jennifer Murphy-Wescott

4.  Salvation Army Giving Tree

Jennifer Murphy-Wescott of My Family. My Friends. My Life. teaches her children about giving by picking a Salvation Army Angel Tree each Christmas. Last year was the first year her son Peter, age 4, really got it, and it was something they enjoyed doing together. When Jennifer asked Peter what he enjoys about doing the Angel Giving Tree, he exclaimed, “Presents make me happy, and I like making [the other kids] happy.”

Image via Flickr/SpokaneFocus
Image via Flickr/SpokaneFocus

5.  Meals on Wheels

The Meals on Wheels program delivers approximately 1 million meals per day to seniors in need. Lauren Savvoy volunteers for the program with her 3- and 4-year-old children. Her children enjoy delivering the meals, and typically, the kids bring a smile to the faces of the seniors they meet.  

No matter how small a community project you and your child participate in together, every little bit makes a difference for all involved.  

Have you participated in a community service program with your child?  If so, what did the two of you learn from the experience?

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5 Ways You Can Involve Your Preschooler in Community Service

Mindi is a working mom with three boys ages 4, 2, and an infant (born June 2013). She spent her first 8 years of her career in Speech-Language Pathology at a Children's Hospital. She currently works with adults and children in home health. The real fun for her happens when she is at home with her boys, chasing them around and pretending to be a super hero. She blogs about life as a working mom at Simply Stavish. Her weekly feature, Words in the Sand, teaches parents how to grow their child's s ... More

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2 comments

  1. Charity says:

    Great article ! Mine are not preschoolers yet but atleast i have a good idea of ways to get my boys involved when they get older!!!

  2. ProudMomma says:

    These are all great ideas. I think it is very important for kids to do some type of giving. Growing up, I always did the Angel Tree and Operation Christmas Child. I want to start back and think it would be essential to get my kids involved.

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