The Ins and Outs of Playgroups

Children playing at the parkPlaygroups are wonderful platforms for young children to socialize and connect with other kids their age on a regular basis. This helps your child learn the skills they will need in preschool or kindergarten and can help them to build friendships with other children that may last a lifetime. In addition to that, for a mom often isolated at home with just children, playgroups offer time to talk with other adults, forging friendships, reducing stress, and breathing some fresh air into your life as well. Finding the perfect playgroup for you and your child may take some time, but keep looking because they are definitely out there.

Depending on where you live, you may find dozens of playgroups listed online or in local newspapers. Many larger playgroup organizations post flyers in pediatrician’s offices as well as on supermarket bulletin boards. You can also check with your local library to find a playgroup. These larger groups normally have a regular meeting place at a gym or local playground. They also schedule outings that are similar to field trips several times per month. Playgroups can meet once a week or several times a week depending on the size of the group and are normally open to parents of children who are not yet attending regular school. This means that if you have a one year old and three year old, one playgroup will work for both children.

There are also special interest playgroups that are often available. For instance, playgroups for mothers of twins, nursing mothers, working moms, or families interested in organic living, which help to band like-minded parents together. If you don’t have a specific interest – then joining a playgroup that is in your neighborhood or convenient to where you live may be the best option. If you cannot find a playgroup in your neighborhood and see lots of mothers like yourself, take the initiative to hand out flyers and try to get one started. There aren’t any stringent rules that must be followed to have a playgroup, and the point is finding children and parents that get along together.

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There are some useful resources online that can help you find a playgroup that works for you. Try searching www.meetup.com by your zip code to find out what may be available in your area.

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When you join a playgroup, it is important that you know what you want. Are you mostly interested in socializing your kids or do you want to make friends as well? Are you interested in a group for moms only, or do you want dad to be involved as well. Call up the playgroup organizer and ask as many questions as you have. Then, make it a point to meet with them at least once before making a decision either way. Playgroups are like anything else in life, you may like one and not another. You can also join a playgroup and ‘break up’ with it down the road should you find another one that seems to be a better fit. In the meantime, you and your children can meet new people and hopefully make some good friends along the way.

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The Ins and Outs of Playgroups

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  1. Profile photo of Cody Cody says:

    Meetup.com is how I met my moms by the way. It’s easy to sign up and use and it’s free. You can search local groups near you or create one of your own although I believe creating one does cost.

  2. Profile photo of Cody Cody says:

    I totally recommend joining a moms group/play group. It has done wonders for me and my son. He is only 6 months old but I have been taking him to play groups since he was 3 months. His father and I both have a hard time socializing. I moved around a lot when I was a kid and I live 300 miles from my friends and family so getting to just be around other people is wonderful. Especially when you are in an area you aren’t familiar with the area.

  3. Profile photo of Kenzi Kenzi says:

    Wow wish we had something like this in our area, but we are way to rural. The only playgrouds around are for bigger kids (like 3+), nothing I’d feel comfortable taking my 6mo to.

  4. Profile photo of Erin Erin says:

    My daughter was very easily overwhelmed in situations with lots of people, so I found a playgroup near me to help gently expose her to crowds, but at her own pace. It was great because if she was showing signs of being overwhelmed, we could leave. Now she’s 6 months old and seems to enjoy watching the older kids run around, and there are a few babies her age there as well. It’s great for me too because I’ve met some other parents and it’s so nice to have some adult interaction in the week!

  5. Profile photo of Krystal Krystal says:

    Never heard of these before. Most parents up here bring their kids to the park in the summer & do daycare or babysitters the rest of the year. Sounds like something to look into

  6. Profile photo of Marshall Marshall says:

    I’d like to make my own group. i’ve never heard of this or seen any, but I know lots of babies and mommy’s our age.

  7. Profile photo of gfeld gfeld says:

    My 2 yr old is loving her group. I am so happy about it.

  8. I need to try and find some play groups for my son.

  9. Profile photo of Lulu Lulu says:

    We found a playgroup near us that was perfect: Any parent/guardian was welcome…so I have met nannies, moms, dads, aunts, grandparents, etc. Plus the kids all love it and have fun, and everyone is super supportive.

  10. Profile photo of sheenaholman sheenaholman says:

    Ive met people through going to the park near my house!

  11. Profile photo of Aimee Aimee says:

    Great ideas for new moms!

  12. Profile photo of Amy Amy says:

    My friends and I have our own play group

  13. Profile photo of Helina Helina says:

    great article… now i know what my kids need!

  14. Profile photo of Valerie Valerie says:

    Lucky for me all of my friends also have babies, so its an automatic playgroup(:

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