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Make It Fun
Thursday, April 21, 2011 by Jeannie Fleming-Gifford
When all else fails, make it fun. That's my philosophy and I'm sticking to it.
Parenthood is anything but predictable. Most times it is indescribable. It's one awesome ride that, at its peaks, you never knew you could have such joy or love. In it's valleys, you may wonder if you'll find ever find your way up the mountainside again (most times, a good night's sleep can help, but if you find yourself in a "valley" too long, DO solicit help from your spouse, a friend or doctor).
I'm practicial. Optimisitc. Everything-in-moderation kind of mama. I like to think of myself that way.
I've followed a lot of parenting advice. Most times it has worked. Then, there are the times when NOTHING seems to work. Nothing.
I could do a lot of things, including getting totally flustered, but it would do me no good. Chances are, things would end with both me and my munchkin in tears. There has to be a different way. Ah yes, turn the tables. Make it FUN.
Fun, as in:
*Bedtime: It can be more than challenging to get the kiddo to her bedroom. Now that she is a walking/talking machine, she has her own agenda. So, how can one effectively make bedtime as grand as all her other plans? Well, some nights there are parades to her room. The favorite right now is the "horsey" ride. It may take a few extra minutes and deep breaths for a little extra energy on my part, but I find we've both had a much easier time transitioning to bedtime with a little silliness.
*Nutrition: I dislike the veggie battle. You may know this one. It's the "No like XYZ" or perhaps a simple preference to eat everything else other than what is on the plate. There's also the "I only like one kind of food" phase. Well, I've discovered making faces. No, not at the child. Making faces with food. There are plenty of smiley and silly faces that can be made with some of the best foods. Small pieces of strawberries, grapes (skin removed, cubed in tiny bites), carrots (cooked or raw), banana pieces, even hard-boiled eggs - they all equal fun. And you know what? I'm enjoying the creative process too. The best part though is seeing her actually giggle at my creations and then eat the stuff.
*General crankiness: We all have our moments. This includes our little ones. Sometimes, they are just fiesty. Rather than try to reason, sometimes, I find a good tickle, a silly face, or just a big hug is the answer.
What tricks are you using these days to keep life fun with your little one?
