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Happy 2nd Birthday Baby Steps!
Thursday, October 27, 2011 by Jeannie Fleming-Gifford
When it comes to child development, sometimes it is not about what we teach our child, but about what they teach us.
Thanks! For two years, we've been sharing this journey together. In October 2009, my munchkin was just starting to toddle around independently. I'd been in my own journey as a parent for 2 years. It was at this time, I was blessed with the opportunity to connect with all of you through the "Baby Steps" blog.
Isn't it amazing how much growth and change can happen in two years?!
If you're considering getting pregnant or are recently pregnant (congrats!), think about where you were before your journey started. What occupied your thoughts? What occupied your time?
As a brand new parent, how has your world changed?
In this game for 4 plus years, I find my little girl has rocked my world. I won't deny it, my world does revolve around her, her physical care and emotional needs.
Though I had been trained in child development, no textbook could have prepared me for this journey called "parenthood."
At times, it seems my common sense has left me. As a new mama, I'd often try to figure out what may be leading to the fussiness in my infant only to realize I'd overlooked the obvious (diaper wet? hungry? tired?, etc.). I've become one of those women who will show up to work wearing two different shoes (and no, I am not trying to make a fashion statement!).
When I research developmental norms (what is the typical age and stage children do certain tasks, i.e. sleep through the night, talk, walk, etc.), my child often breaks all the rules. So much for those "norms." Being a parent has taught me to expect the unexpected, to welcome surprises, and - as long as my child is healthy and happy - to go with the flow.
I've learned there are some things I cannot control. Many things I have tried to "control" about being a parent seemed to fail. The kiddo has her own mind, her own agenda, and she's taking me on the ride! Parenthood is about flexibility, patience, and truly loving as you had never loved before (even at 2am when you are more tired that you ever imagined you could be).
What is parenthood teaching YOU?
Thanks for sharing the ride!
