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Celebrate
Monday, September 13, 2010 by Jeannie Fleming-Gifford
It's the hubby's birthday. Time to celebrate! I admit it. Since the kiddo came along, it's a bit harder to pull off some of my b-day celebration ideas.
Prior to the munchkin coming into our lives, I was always so good at planning ahead. I'd have the cake ordered and surprise him at work on his special day. The birthday evening might hold a special dinner out, attending a sports event, or even an elaborate surprise party with family and friends.
Now, with a wee little one in our household, most holidays she takes the stage. How can she not? She's cute and everything is exciting and new. It's wonderful to watch every celebration - every day for that matter - through her eyes.
I've written about traditions before (www.planningfamily.com/blog/tradition!/) and the importance of them in our child's life. In our house, birthdays aren't so much about tradition as they are simply a time to stop and celebrate. This year, the celebration may look a little different. I may not get the cake ordered and delivered to his workplace. We may be at home vs. some fancy restaurant. The surprise party may have only gotten planned in my head. Nonetheless, I know it will still be a special day for him. This year when he blows out the candles, she'll be clapping and smiling. I know that is one of the best presents he could get.
As for her, these celebrations let her know that she is part of something special too. She is part of a family, a family who loves and cherishes one another. When it comes to development, feeling that you belong, that you matter, and that you are special is one of the best ways to be confident in your place, in your family, and in your community.
The celebrations may have changed. They may look different, but they are more important than ever.
Bring on the cake! Happy birthday, honey.
