6 Secrets to Being A Happy Mother

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happy mother and childThere’s nothing like the joy that comes with seeing your newborn smile for the first time, and in the months that follow, the bliss you feel as you get to know your little one is all-consuming. But sometime after the first few months or years, a feeling of discontent can creep in. Luckily, there are some preventative measures you can take to remain happy and fulfilled while performing one of the toughest jobs there is—being a mom!

  • Set Your Own Standards
    Being a mom comes with its fair share of advice, both warranted and otherwise; you’ll no doubt hear the opinions of in-laws, friends, and complete strangers, and they’ll have the latest on just exactly how you’re supposed to raise your kiddo. Add this to the mountains of parenting magazines out there telling you what to do as well, and you can easily become overwhelmed. While it’s true that children don’t come with instruction manuals, mothers are born with instincts. Your best bet as far as your happiness, and perhaps your sanity, goes is to trust your gut and ignore the rest.
  • Take a Time-out
    When it comes to time-outs, sometimes you need to be the recipient rather than the giver. Everyone needs a break now and then, so don’t feel guilty about sneaking away to take a long, hot bath or to curl up with a good book. When you return to your parental obligations, you’ll be refreshed and ready to tackle finger-painting, refereeing, or whatever else comes your way!
  • Connect with Other Moms
    A little moral support never hurt anyone, and no one can understand what your life is like better than a fellow mom. Just chatting with someone who truly gets it, even if that person is an online friend, can help reduce your stress level and let you know that you’re not alone in the journey.
  • Prioritize
    There are just too many tasks that come with motherhood to get them all done, all the time. That’s why, in order to be a happy mom, you’ve got to start prioritizing. Take a few minutes in the morning to list three to four chores, or errands, that absolutely have to get done. Leave the rest for another day. After all, if you clean and toil 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, you’ll miss the best part of being a mom—watching your children grow into the amazing people they were meant to be!
  • Share the Responsibility
    You’ve heard the saying that it takes a village to raise a child, but let’s face it—villages are hard to come by these days. You may have to settle for a husband, grandmother, or friend to help you share the burden of motherhood. Don’t feel guilty, the more positive influences your child has growing up, the better!
  • Pursue your Own Interests
    Although it’s certainly a full-time job, being a mom doesn’t mean you have to give up the things you love. Keeping up with your own hobbies and activities will not only make you happier, it will also make you a well-rounded role model for your child. Who knows? You may just inspire your little one to follow in your footsteps.

If you’re like most moms, you’ll spend most of your time making sure your little one is happy, but don’t neglect your own level of contentment in the process. Believe it or not, happier moms have happier children, so take some time to look after you as well. Your children will thank you for it!

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  1. Avatar of mommy nhoj mommy nhoj says:

    Enjoy the journey of parenthood!

  2. Avatar of LIZ says:

    take time off for you its very important because youre not gonna feel like your life its over

  3. Avatar of EbyMom EbyMom says:

    Wow this article is so interesting. I do take some time off and I also discuss with my sisters who began this journey before me and they understand everything bit of it. It is always good to take some time off and get refreshed and rejuvenated. It helps I am a living witness. Motherhood is a real task that has a long term of blessings.

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    informative article.

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  7. Avatar of Heatherly Heatherly says:

    Really good article….especially the end….enjoy watching your children grow! I regret not doing that with my oldest two (23 and 21 years old). I’m doing it now with the others and love it!

  8. Avatar of Lindsay Lindsay says:

    Don’t stress about it.. It’ll get done when it gets done.

  9. Avatar of debbie debbie says:

    List 3-4 priorities per day to do, then let the rest go.

  10. Avatar of Colleen Colleen says:

    Every mom needs time away, it’s good for you and your child :)

  11. Avatar of jenfreeze jenfreeze says:

    These are all so important! But definitely connecting with other moms; it’s good to hear you’re not the only one going through it!

  12. Avatar of Ade Lina Ade Lina says:

    It is important that a woman finds what makes her happy and her own person. A woman deserves to grow and find oppertunity and interest in life!!

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